Correcting someone can be one of the toughest things to do, especially when they’re in the wrong. People’s egos can make it even harder to accept help from others, and when addiction is involved, it’s even more complicated. Offering help in such cases, particularly if it’s not asked for, is tricky. Here are some tips for staging a successful intervention:
### Preparation is Crucial
When planning an intervention for a friend or family member, preparation is essential. Given how sensitive the situation is, it’s important to have a clear plan and script ready beforehand. Think about involving the people who are closest to them but keep the group small. Avoid having more than ten people, as a large group can feel overwhelming and may seem like an attack. A small group of close supporters can make the intervention feel more personal and manageable. Even if the intervention isn’t immediately welcomed, having it well-organized will help it run more smoothly. Plan out every detail, including the location, participants, what will be said, and what the next steps will be.
### Seek Professional Advice
Some situations need professional input. It might be uncomfortable for the person receiving the intervention, but don’t hesitate to seek professional advice. Give the professional a detailed background so they can provide the best guidance, whether it’s consulting over the phone or being there in person during the intervention.
### Stay Positive
One of the most important aspects of a successful intervention is the language used. Emotions will be high and it might be tempting to unload all your feelings on the person. Often, friends and family have been holding back for a long time, but during the intervention, it’s crucial to stay positive. Avoid verbal attacks, even unintentionally, as this can completely derail the process.
### Have an Action Plan
An intervention is only as good as the follow-through. Make sure you have clear action steps to take afterwards. The real impact of the intervention lies in the follow-up actions. Think of the intervention as planting seeds; the follow-up is the harvesting process. Ideally, this process will help your loved one break free from their self-destructive behaviors.